I can usually talk about the importance of women’s sexual pleasure and get nods and high-fives all day long. But almost as soon as I say orgasm, there is some form of resistance. I hear, “You know it’s not *all about* orgasm!” (Note: I have never, nor would I ever say that sex or sexuality is *all about* anything. Let alone orgasms.)
So what’s this need for people to feel they have to remind me that sex is more than orgasm really about?
Well, our society is label OBSESSED.
And I don’t just mean the tags in your clothes. I mean our desire to put everything into its own bucket, safely separated and removed. Sex, sexuality, pleasure, sensuality, orgasms – we somehow over and over again want to separate them as ways to understand them. When in truth, look at the beauty they create just in overlapping these five gems!
In a recent talk I had about how my jade egg practice helped me experience heightened orgasms, I again got the comment that “It’s not all about the orgasm!” Smile. Because…
Of course it’s not all about the orgasm – and you know what, it is also about the orgasm…
This is why when Layla Martin offers her annual Jade Pleasure Course, I love to shout about it from the roof-tops! Layla is a Queen of championing of integration and overlap. Yes, Jade Pleasure yields results in vaginal strengthening and heightened sensation. It also deepens your connection to self-love, boosts body confidence, and guides you through releasing the beliefs that hold you back in life! There is no room for narrow labels in her work and I love her for that!
*Because I’m dying for you to have this experience, it’s my pleasure to send you a stunning two wick massage lotion candle in celebration of your commitment to self-love.
*****BIG ANNOUNCEMENT – O’actually’s NEW PRODUCT REVIEW SECTION *****
Today I am thrilled to share my very favorite products with you! All are body safe, all are designed for your pleasure… and might also yield an orgasm or three!
Bonus: I’ve purposely partnered with Vibrant, an online marketplace for body safe toys that gives 100% of proceeds to Planned Parenthood of the Rocky Mountains! So if you’re interested to try these awesome products for yourself, where possible you’ll be directed to Vibrant! (Because what’s a better win/win than body safe pleasure products that support both sexual and reproductive health?! Hallelujah!!!!)
My love to your multifaceted you!